By DavidPage

Getting a divorce can be a stressful event for the spouses, their children and anyone else involved. While the movies and television shows often portray divorce proceedings as volatile and full of drama, it does not always have to be that way. There are different types of divorces that cover all sorts of situations.


Couples that choose to go through with an uncontested divorce Tampa will need to work through the terms together and come to an agreement about how to split any assets and deal with any custody issues. Because everything has been agreed upon beforehand, this option is usually handled quickly and privately. The separating couple will also save money in court and lawyer fees because it does not require lengthy, drawn-out sessions.


The contested divorce is usually the type that is depicted in the movies. If the spouses are unable to come to an agreement on custody arrangements or how to split assets, either by themselves or with the help of a third party, then they will usually end up before a judge. This process can involve settlement negotiation attempts, multiple hearings and possibly a trial to resolve issues.


If one spouse is missing and cannot be located, or does not respond to the divorce request, the remaining partner can still file anyways. Once a judge has granted a divorce by default, then it is final and usually cannot be undone, even if the missing spouse was unaware of the proceedings.


If the couple does not want to go to court to resolve their issues, but still needs assistance hammering out all the details before coming to an agreement, then they can choose to work with a mediator. A mediator is a third-party person who remains neutral during the process and guides the spouses to a solution. They do not have the authority to make decisions but will instead help the two parties come to an agreement that can be presented to the judge. This process is similar to arbitration in that a third party is required. However, an arbitrator is a judge who has the authority to make a ruling in the same way as a courtroom judge.

Anyone who is contemplating getting a divorce should examine their options carefully. Remember that getting divorced means handling a big life change, so try to prepare for it as much as possible. It is a good idea to consult with a trustworthy professional for advice before filing any paperwork.